Did you ever think you’d get to a point in your life when what you have to say doesn’t matter to anyone, anymore? Maybe you’re already there, or know someone who is. It’s the sad side to aging when your opinion expires, and the person on the other end of your flapping gums finds you about as relevant as spoiled milk.
I used to think that old people held such great wisdom and knowledge from all the years spent prior on this planet. I believed in looking up to your elders, anxiously awaiting some bone of advice to nibble on and regurgitate into my own life.
But as I get older, I’m realizing that this just isn’t true. Not all old people impart wisdom. But for the many that do, are we listening?
As a nurse of twenty plus years, the one piece of elderly advice I have heard time and again is, “Don’t get old!” I used to laugh at this comment and brush it aside, but at forty-one, I’m kind of starting to fear this bit of Methuselahian advice. The physical aspects of aging are scary enough without the thought of gradually being reduced to nothing more than an amorphous cluster of denture cream, depends, and dementia.
We need to respect our youthfully challenged population, for one day we will step into their orthopedics, and it will be our coke rimmed spectacle reflection staring back at us in the mirror.
There’s usually a lesson in a story, even if you’ve heard it a thousand times. So instead of rolling your eyes and planning your escape route, sit down, pour a cup of coffee, and listen to that old codger, because that might just be the lesson we’re all missing.
I don’t want to expire before my time. I want to age like fine wine and have that cork popped open, instead of jammed into my doddering old pie hole. We’re all gonna get there someday…
Just ‘Don’t get old” along the way!