I have three children and I’m painfully aware of their behavior at all times: the good, the bad, and the ugly. I have a face for every moment: a look, a sigh, an exasperation and a few exclamations. Lately I feel like a soldier alone on the battlefield. While I’m running for cover, intercepting my children’s barrage of ills, I see other moms and dads detached and disinterested; no beads of sweat, just a cool look of apathy.
What are these parents thinking? Are they too tired to care, or are they just as rude as their children? After careful observation, I think the latter. Most parents these days feel entitled, and then pass that on to their children. Why should little Janie conform to the rules, if mom and dad don’t? Little Janie can run around the bookstore like an animal, because her mom lets her, showing total disregard for the people around them.
As if the public display of naughtiness is not enough, have you noticed the way these children are speaking to adults? Call me old fashioned but fresh talk, and back talk, irk the crap out of me.
When an eight year old feels free to question my authority with the tone of a ruler swinging nun, I’m speechless. I once said to a guest, “Susie, please don’t run on the stairs”, her reply, with attitude, “Why? My mom let’s me run on the stairs at my house!” There’s something to be said for not talking back to your elders. It’s at that moment I’d like to respond, “I don’t give a F- what your mom lets you do, this is my house, my rules (you little shit)“, but that’s a bit harsh, so I smile, and in my best ‘Leave It To Beaver’ tone of voice, say “Well Susie, in this house we don’t run on the stairs.” Five minutes later Susie’s running on my stairs, and I’m ready to stick my foot out, trip her and end the play date early.
Instead I take a deep breath, pray for an early parent pickup and continue to wonder: Is it me, or are children getting ruder?
Reposted by Jean James courtesy of: http://www.inthepowderroom.com